有些路,隻能一個人走

第13章 等待是幸福的反方向Happiness

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很多人認為,擁有財富與聲望之時,便是幸福到來之際。我得告訴你,事實並非如此。這個世界,富有卻痛苦得如同生活在地獄的人比比皆是。關於電影明星自殺或吸毒致死的報道,我們不是沒有見過。毫無疑問,金錢並非解決全部問題的唯一辦法。

不義之財無法帶來幸福。彩票中獎不能帶來幸福。賭博所得不可能帶來幸福。在我看來,幸福的秘訣在於工作卓有成就,在於對他人的幸福有所貢獻,在於誠實致富。憑運氣或靠欺騙得來的錢財是不義之財。利用他人或傷害他人得來的錢財,你不會樂於接受,你會覺得自己自私而卑鄙。

建立在誠實正直和卓有成效的工作、貢獻及自尊的基礎上的幸福才會長久。幸福不是終點,而是一個過程。這個過程需要連續不斷的誠實正直和卓有成效的工作。它讓你真正有益於他人,讓你意識到自身的價值。正如韋恩博士所說:“沒有通向幸福的路,幸福本身就是路。”“有朝一日,我實現了自己的目標,有車有房,擁有自己的事業,那麽我就會幸福。”——這種說法毫無意義。生活不會是這樣的。若是等到某些東西的出現,依賴外部環境的改變,你才感到幸福,那你永遠若有所失,總會錯過某些東西。

Many people think that when they become rich and successful,happiness will naturally follow.Let me tell you that nothing is further from the truth.The world is full of very rich people who are as miserable as if they were living in hell.We have read stories about movie stars who committed suicide or died from drugs.Quite clearly,money is not the only answer to all problems.

Wealth obtained through dishonest means does not bring happiness.Lottery winnings do not bring happiness.Gamble winnings do not bring happiness.To my mind,the secret to happiness lies in your successful work,in your contribution towards others’happiness and in your wealth you have earned through your own honest effort.If you obtain wealth through luck or dishonest means,you will know that it is ill earned money.If you get your money by taking advantage of others or by hurting others,you will not be happy with it.You will think you are a base person.